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Purpose

You Don’t Need to Find Yourself. You Need to Surrender to Yourself

May 05, 20254 min read

You Don’t Need to Find Yourself. You Need to Surrender to Yourself

Finding your purpose is not about searching outward. It's about surrendering inward.

That’s such a key word—surrender. You don’t have to go looking for yourself. You have to surrender to yourself.

We do so much external searching. Gurus, organizations, vacations, distractions. But those things don’t bring lasting clarity. The real answers? They live in surrender.

Your purpose isn’t out there. It’s inside of you.


Your Divine Purpose Lives Within

Your inner voice. Your inner world. God speaking through your mind, your consciousness, and your intuition. That’s where purpose is found.

Ask yourself:
Is what I’m doing generating energy?
If yes, then that’s your clue.
Energy = Purpose. Purpose = Flow.

Are you in flow? Does it resonate with who you’re becoming? If so, you’re stepping into your divine purpose.


Silence & Solitude: The Gateway Within

Sometimes you must disconnect to reconnect.
Silence allows you to hear the voice you’ve been drowning out.

That was me—searching so hard for purpose that I drowned out the voice of God.

Stillness isn’t always quiet.
You can find solitude in dance, walking, swimming, meditation. Anything that helps you tune in.

Here’s the distinction:

  • Aloneness = Wholeness

  • Isolation = Separation

Alone in nature to connect with God is not the same as isolating out of fear or anxiety. The energy is different. If you’ve been isolating, this is your invitation to redirect that into grounding solitude.


Follow the Energy

Energy never dies—it transfers.
Purpose often shows up in the things that light us up from the inside.

Ask yourself:
What brings me alive?
What charges my spirit?

If it energizes you, it’s meant for you.
If it drains you, it’s not.


Reclaim Your Voice

The real book is you—not society’s definition of you.

Let go of the pressure to be perfect.
Let go of trying to live by others’ standards.

Education comes from the Latin educare — to draw out.
Your purpose is already in you. It's not about putting more in. It's about drawing it out.

We are infinite beings who forgot who we are.
Purpose is remembering.


You Are the Technology

You are the tech.
Your body, your intuition, your heart—they are your divine tools.

We often connect externally, but the real connection is internal.

Surrender is the key.
God doesn’t want to force your purpose. He wants you to trust your design.
That’s why faith is everything.

Ask your questions.
Question everything.
And then surrender.


Drop the Labels

Be authentic.
Let go of what society told you to be.
Embrace who God created you to be.

If it doesn’t feel right in your heart, start questioning.
The mind is conditioned by society.
The heart is cultivated by God.

Prune your heart.
Soften it.
Let go of pride, fear, and the stone around your soul.


Let Go of Your Will

God loves us enough to give us the freedom to choose.

You can live by your own design—or the one He made for you.
Every time I chose my own path, something felt off.
When I surrender to His path, I find alignment.

You are not here to meet the expectations of the world.
You are here to meet the expectations of your soul.


Seek the Creator, Not the Creation

Everything in this world is a creation.
But where is the Creator?

That’s where I pull my energy from.
That’s where I find authenticity.


Self-Love Is a Pillar

Self-love is not the foundation—God’s love is.
But self-love is a pillar that keeps the energy flowing.

Love your flaws.
That’s where your deeper truths live.

When I started to love every part of myself—including the broken parts—I began to understand why I am the way I am.
And it finally made sense.


Your Circle Reflects Your Spirit

People are mirrors.
The people you surround yourself with reflect your inner state.

That truth changed everything for me.

People are not here to complete you.
They are here to reflect you.
Don’t rely on others for identity.

Ground your identity in God.


Identity Is Found in God

Too many of us are in an identity crisis.
Why?
Because we don’t know who we are.

But the answer is simple:
Ground your identity in God.

I don’t need to identify with anything the world offers.
My identity is created by God.
In the image of God.

And that is enough.


Final Word: Purpose Is a State of Being

It’s not a title.
Not a career.
Not a destination.

True purpose is a frequency.
It’s a presence.
It’s alignment.

Let love guide you.
Let energy lead you.
Let God remind you.

You don’t need to find yourself.
You just need to remember who you are.

Blessings to the Most High. Glory to Source.

Welcome to TheLoveChange.

Artist | Alchemist | Activist
Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋
Student of Life, Learning As I Go.

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Artist | Alchemist | Activist Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Student of Life, Learning As I Go.

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