Give Me One Minute And I Will Show You Why Your Favorite Self-Help Book Wasted Your Precious Time (And What You Can Do About It)
Discover How An Overlooked, 5-Step System Can Turn Your Self-Help Knowledge Into Real World Results
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Dear Aspiring Change-Maker...
Pause for a moment and consider: How many transformative books have you read? Podcasts listened to? Online courses enrolled in?
Be real with me:
Have they truly shifted your life's trajectory?
Or are you in a never-ending cycle of 'feel-good' self-improvement?
Count the years since you first dived into the realm of self-help.
Five? Six? Even a decade?
Now, evaluate:
Are you living your dream life?
Are you emotionally resilient and mentally empowered?
Are you making groundbreaking strides in your journey?
If you find yourself saying "no" to any of these, today might be your turning point.
The answer isn't another book, per se.
It's a life-navigation system. Let's call it a 'LifeMap,' shall we?
This Purpose Planner contains a 4-step blueprint designed to fast-track your dreams into your daily reality.
Because the thing most self-help manuals lack is actionable strategy.
And that's precisely where TheLoveChange Purpose Planner steps in.
How Will The Purpose Planner
Work For Me?
Map Out Your Dream Life
Define your vision, routines, intentions, and goals for the year.
This is necessary to wake up in the morning
excited
and ready to win... not sit their scrolling on your phone.
Refine Your Path
Once you define your future do you just leave it at that and hope it comes true? No.
Narrowing down your purpose goals, focus goals, and habits into quarterly and monthly goals will reduce overwhelm to near zero.
Dive Even Deeper
Week by week, you will dive deep and realize your true priorities.
Weekly reviews will set you up to absolutely crush your week.
Small Actionable Steps
This is where the magic happens.
Each day, you will prioritize tasks based on your goals. They will be effortless to complete and not take up
hours upon hours of your day.
Legend has it that an hour of focus a day can drastically change your life.
Bonus: The Purpose Planner on Notion
Plan From Your Phone and Desktop
Notion syncs across your devices so you can plan on the go and write down crucial ideas.
Fully Customizable
Don't like a specific part of the PDF version? Simply log into Notion and use its variety of features to make it your own.
You Can Wait For The Perfect Moment, Or You Can Commit
I’ll keep this part short and sweet.
You are the only one that knows your current situation.
Be honest with yourself:
Have you truly made the progress that you’ve wanted to in the last 6 months?
How much longer will you be okay with your current situation in life?
The choice is in your hands.
Start making significant progress towards your dream life, or sit back and wait for the perfect moment (which we both know will never come).
Enter your details below and press "Download Now" to get instant access to the
PDF and Notion version of The Purpose Planner.
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You Don’t Have to Fix Everything to Be Worthy of Love
Let me say this clearly:
You don’t have to fix everything about yourself to be worthy of love.
You don’t have to erase every mistake, rewrite every memory, or heal every scar before you’re finally enough.
Some of you feel like love is a finish line. Like if you just do enough shadow work, enough therapy, enough affirmations — then one day, finally, you’ll be lovable.
But hear me: you are already worthy. Not in some future version of yourself, not “when you get it together,” but right here, right now.
One of the biggest lies we’ve been sold is that healing makes you worthy.
Think about it.
You say:
“If I stop being anxious, then I’ll deserve peace.”
“If I overcome this trauma, then I’ll finally deserve love.”
“If I can be positive all the time, then I’ll finally be valuable.”
But here’s the truth: that mindset makes healing another hustle. A spiritual hamster wheel that never ends.
Because there will always be another layer. Another wound. Another shadow.
If you tie your worth to healing, you’ll never feel worthy — because you’ll always find something else to fix.
Healing isn’t about earning your worth. Healing is about remembering it.
So where does this belief come from?
From the time we were children, love was often taught with conditions.
“If you behave, you’re good.”
“If you fail, you’re punished.”
“If you perform, you’re loved.”
And without even realizing it, we grew up believing love is transactional. That to be loved, we must prove ourselves.
But let me tell you: love that requires performance is not love. That’s control.
God didn’t design you to earn love. God created you from love.
Your worth is not in your achievements, your mistakes, or your progress. Your worth is in your being.
Now — does this mean we shouldn’t heal? No.
Growth is sacred. Healing is necessary.
But healing should never come from shame.
Healing should never feel like punishment.
Healing should never feel like a requirement to finally deserve love.
Instead, healing is a return to yourself. It’s not about fixing what’s “wrong.” It’s about remembering what’s always been true — that you are enough.
When you remove the pressure to “be fixed,” your healing becomes lighter. It becomes less about achieving and more about receiving.
Here’s something powerful:
Some of us are addicted to identifying as “broken.”
We cling to our wounds because they’ve become who we are.
We say: “I’m the one with trauma.” “I’m the one who struggles.” “I’m the one who’s always healing.”
But you are not your pain.
You are not your past.
You are not your wounds.
You are the one who survived it.
You are the one who is still standing.
You are the one God still calls worthy.
At some point, you have to stop identifying as the broken one and start identifying as the beloved one.
So here’s the shift:
You don’t heal to become lovable.
You heal because you are already lovable.
You don’t grow to finally be worthy.
You grow because your worth is already established.
Think about it — the baby version of you was worthy of love. The child version of you was worthy of love. And the adult version of you — with all your mistakes, all your scars, and all your healing left to do — is still worthy of love.
Your worth is not up for debate. It never was.
So take this with you today:
You don’t have to fix every piece of yourself before you can rest.
You don’t have to complete some never-ending checklist before you deserve peace.
You are allowed to be a work in progress and still be worthy.
Because love isn’t waiting for some future version of you.
Love is waiting for you to stop running, stop striving, and simply allow yourself to receive it now.
So breathe. Let go of the shame.
Stop trying to prove your worth through perfection.
And remember — you are enough, exactly as you are.
You Don’t Have to Fix Everything to Be Worthy of Love
Let me say this clearly:
You don’t have to fix everything about yourself to be worthy of love.
You don’t have to erase every mistake, rewrite every memory, or heal every scar before you’re finally enough.
Some of you feel like love is a finish line. Like if you just do enough shadow work, enough therapy, enough affirmations — then one day, finally, you’ll be lovable.
But hear me: you are already worthy. Not in some future version of yourself, not “when you get it together,” but right here, right now.
One of the biggest lies we’ve been sold is that healing makes you worthy.
Think about it.
You say:
“If I stop being anxious, then I’ll deserve peace.”
“If I overcome this trauma, then I’ll finally deserve love.”
“If I can be positive all the time, then I’ll finally be valuable.”
But here’s the truth: that mindset makes healing another hustle. A spiritual hamster wheel that never ends.
Because there will always be another layer. Another wound. Another shadow.
If you tie your worth to healing, you’ll never feel worthy — because you’ll always find something else to fix.
Healing isn’t about earning your worth. Healing is about remembering it.
So where does this belief come from?
From the time we were children, love was often taught with conditions.
“If you behave, you’re good.”
“If you fail, you’re punished.”
“If you perform, you’re loved.”
And without even realizing it, we grew up believing love is transactional. That to be loved, we must prove ourselves.
But let me tell you: love that requires performance is not love. That’s control.
God didn’t design you to earn love. God created you from love.
Your worth is not in your achievements, your mistakes, or your progress. Your worth is in your being.
Now — does this mean we shouldn’t heal? No.
Growth is sacred. Healing is necessary.
But healing should never come from shame.
Healing should never feel like punishment.
Healing should never feel like a requirement to finally deserve love.
Instead, healing is a return to yourself. It’s not about fixing what’s “wrong.” It’s about remembering what’s always been true — that you are enough.
When you remove the pressure to “be fixed,” your healing becomes lighter. It becomes less about achieving and more about receiving.
Here’s something powerful:
Some of us are addicted to identifying as “broken.”
We cling to our wounds because they’ve become who we are.
We say: “I’m the one with trauma.” “I’m the one who struggles.” “I’m the one who’s always healing.”
But you are not your pain.
You are not your past.
You are not your wounds.
You are the one who survived it.
You are the one who is still standing.
You are the one God still calls worthy.
At some point, you have to stop identifying as the broken one and start identifying as the beloved one.
So here’s the shift:
You don’t heal to become lovable.
You heal because you are already lovable.
You don’t grow to finally be worthy.
You grow because your worth is already established.
Think about it — the baby version of you was worthy of love. The child version of you was worthy of love. And the adult version of you — with all your mistakes, all your scars, and all your healing left to do — is still worthy of love.
Your worth is not up for debate. It never was.
So take this with you today:
You don’t have to fix every piece of yourself before you can rest.
You don’t have to complete some never-ending checklist before you deserve peace.
You are allowed to be a work in progress and still be worthy.
Because love isn’t waiting for some future version of you.
Love is waiting for you to stop running, stop striving, and simply allow yourself to receive it now.
So breathe. Let go of the shame.
Stop trying to prove your worth through perfection.
And remember — you are enough, exactly as you are.
