Give Me One Minute And I Will Show You Why Your Favorite Self-Help Book Wasted Your Precious Time (And What You Can Do About It)

Discover How An Overlooked, 5-Step System Can Turn Your Self-Help Knowledge Into Real World Results

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Dear Aspiring Change-Maker...

Pause for a moment and consider: How many transformative books have you read? Podcasts listened to? Online courses enrolled in?

Be real with me:

Have they truly shifted your life's trajectory?

Or are you in a never-ending cycle of 'feel-good' self-improvement?

Count the years since you first dived into the realm of self-help.

Five? Six? Even a decade?

Now, evaluate:

  • Are you living your dream life?

  • Are you emotionally resilient and mentally empowered?

  • Are you making groundbreaking strides in your journey?


If you find yourself saying "no" to any of these, today might be your turning point.

The answer isn't another book, per se.

It's a life-navigation system. Let's call it a 'LifeMap,' shall we?

This Purpose Planner contains a 4-step blueprint designed to fast-track your dreams into your daily reality.

Because the thing most self-help manuals lack is actionable strategy.

And that's precisely where TheLoveChange Purpose Planner steps in.

How Will The Purpose Planner

Work For Me?

Map Out Your Dream Life

Define your vision, routines, intentions, and goals for the year.

This is necessary to wake up in the morning

excited

and ready to win... not sit their scrolling on your phone.

Refine Your Path

Once you define your future do you just leave it at that and hope it comes true? No.

Narrowing down your purpose goals, focus goals, and habits into quarterly and monthly goals will reduce overwhelm to near zero.

Dive Even Deeper

Week by week, you will dive deep and realize your true priorities.


Weekly reviews will set you up to absolutely crush your week.

Small Actionable Steps

This is where the magic happens.


Each day, you will prioritize tasks based on your goals. They will be effortless to complete and not take up
hours upon hours of your day.


Legend has it that an hour of focus a day can drastically change your life.

Bonus: The Purpose Planner on Notion

  • Plan From Your Phone and Desktop

    • Notion syncs across your devices so you can plan on the go and write down crucial ideas.

  • Fully Customizable

    • Don't like a specific part of the PDF version? Simply log into Notion and use its variety of features to make it your own.

You Can Wait For The Perfect Moment, Or You Can Commit

I’ll keep this part short and sweet.


You are the only one that knows your current situation.


Be honest with yourself:


Have you truly made the progress that you’ve wanted to in the last 6 months?


How much longer will you be okay with your current situation in life?


The choice is in your hands.


Start making significant progress towards your dream life, or sit back and wait for the perfect moment (which we both know will never come).


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God Closed That Door for a Reason

The Courage to Walk Away: Why God Removes What No Longer Serves You

October 03, 20253 min read

Let’s get real for a moment.
We all pray for clarity, for peace, for guidance from God. But when He actually answers… when He starts removing people, opportunities, or environments from our lives, we resist.
We cry out, “Why me? Why now?”
But what if the removal isn’t rejection… what if it’s protection?
What if walking away — or being walked away from — is not the end of your story, but the beginning of the chapter you were always meant to step into?


Here’s the truth:
Letting go hurts. Even when we know something isn’t good for us, we cling.
Why?
Because chaos feels familiar.
Toxic patterns feel like home when we’ve lived in them long enough.
And even pain feels safer than uncertainty.

That’s why so many people stay in relationships that drain them, jobs that suffocate them, or environments that keep them small.
Not because they don’t know better… but because walking away feels like death to the version of themselves that depended on that chaos to survive.

But God doesn’t call you to survive forever. He calls you to live.


When something leaves your life — whether it’s a person, a dream, or a season — don’t mistake it for abandonment.
Sometimes God closes doors you keep trying to kick open, because He knows what’s behind them will destroy you.

The breakup wasn’t punishment — it was redirection.
The job loss wasn’t failure — it was preparation.
The friendship ending wasn’t betrayal — it was release.

When you look back, you’ll realize:
Every removal was actually an answered prayer in disguise.
You asked for peace? God removed the chaos.
You asked for alignment? God cleared out the distractions.
You asked for purpose? God stripped away what kept you from it.


Here’s the deeper layer most people miss:
When God removes something, He’s not just taking something
from you — He’s calling something out of you.

He’s inviting you to shift your identity.
To stop being the version of you who tolerates crumbs.
To stop being the version of you who clings to what hurts.
To stop being the version of you who begs for love in places it was never meant to come from.

Walking away is not just about leaving people or places.
It’s about leaving the version of you who accepted less than what God wrote into your destiny.


So how do you actually trust this process of removal and redirection?
It starts with perspective.
Ask yourself:
“What is God making space for in my life?”
“What blessings can’t reach me because I’m still holding onto dead weight?”

Then, practice surrender.
Instead of asking, “Why did this leave me?”
Ask, “What is God protecting me from?”
Instead of chasing closure from people, seek confirmation from God.

And most importantly — release the guilt.
You’re not wrong for walking away.
You’re not selfish for choosing peace.
You’re not a failure for closing a chapter that no longer fits your spirit.


On the other side of letting go… is freedom.
On the other side of the grief… is clarity.
On the other side of surrender… is peace so deep it feels like you’re breathing for the first time.

Because when God removes what no longer serves you, He’s not leaving you empty — He’s leaving you open.
And open hands can finally receive what closed fists never could.

So if you’re in a season of endings, trust this:
The pain is temporary, but the promise is eternal.
The loss is real, but the purpose is greater.
The courage to walk away is the same courage that will carry you into your new beginning.


So here’s the reminder:
Every time God removes something, it’s not the end of your story.
It’s a sacred redirection into the story He’s been writing for you all along.

You don’t have to understand it.
You don’t have to explain it.
You just have to trust it.

Because the same God who closes doors… is the One who opens better ones.
And when He does — you’ll realize why every ending was necessary.

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GioLoveChange

Healing | Self-reflection | Growth Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Follower of God, Student for Life

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God Closed That Door for a Reason

The Courage to Walk Away: Why God Removes What No Longer Serves You

October 03, 20253 min read

Let’s get real for a moment.
We all pray for clarity, for peace, for guidance from God. But when He actually answers… when He starts removing people, opportunities, or environments from our lives, we resist.
We cry out, “Why me? Why now?”
But what if the removal isn’t rejection… what if it’s protection?
What if walking away — or being walked away from — is not the end of your story, but the beginning of the chapter you were always meant to step into?


Here’s the truth:
Letting go hurts. Even when we know something isn’t good for us, we cling.
Why?
Because chaos feels familiar.
Toxic patterns feel like home when we’ve lived in them long enough.
And even pain feels safer than uncertainty.

That’s why so many people stay in relationships that drain them, jobs that suffocate them, or environments that keep them small.
Not because they don’t know better… but because walking away feels like death to the version of themselves that depended on that chaos to survive.

But God doesn’t call you to survive forever. He calls you to live.


When something leaves your life — whether it’s a person, a dream, or a season — don’t mistake it for abandonment.
Sometimes God closes doors you keep trying to kick open, because He knows what’s behind them will destroy you.

The breakup wasn’t punishment — it was redirection.
The job loss wasn’t failure — it was preparation.
The friendship ending wasn’t betrayal — it was release.

When you look back, you’ll realize:
Every removal was actually an answered prayer in disguise.
You asked for peace? God removed the chaos.
You asked for alignment? God cleared out the distractions.
You asked for purpose? God stripped away what kept you from it.


Here’s the deeper layer most people miss:
When God removes something, He’s not just taking something
from you — He’s calling something out of you.

He’s inviting you to shift your identity.
To stop being the version of you who tolerates crumbs.
To stop being the version of you who clings to what hurts.
To stop being the version of you who begs for love in places it was never meant to come from.

Walking away is not just about leaving people or places.
It’s about leaving the version of you who accepted less than what God wrote into your destiny.


So how do you actually trust this process of removal and redirection?
It starts with perspective.
Ask yourself:
“What is God making space for in my life?”
“What blessings can’t reach me because I’m still holding onto dead weight?”

Then, practice surrender.
Instead of asking, “Why did this leave me?”
Ask, “What is God protecting me from?”
Instead of chasing closure from people, seek confirmation from God.

And most importantly — release the guilt.
You’re not wrong for walking away.
You’re not selfish for choosing peace.
You’re not a failure for closing a chapter that no longer fits your spirit.


On the other side of letting go… is freedom.
On the other side of the grief… is clarity.
On the other side of surrender… is peace so deep it feels like you’re breathing for the first time.

Because when God removes what no longer serves you, He’s not leaving you empty — He’s leaving you open.
And open hands can finally receive what closed fists never could.

So if you’re in a season of endings, trust this:
The pain is temporary, but the promise is eternal.
The loss is real, but the purpose is greater.
The courage to walk away is the same courage that will carry you into your new beginning.


So here’s the reminder:
Every time God removes something, it’s not the end of your story.
It’s a sacred redirection into the story He’s been writing for you all along.

You don’t have to understand it.
You don’t have to explain it.
You just have to trust it.

Because the same God who closes doors… is the One who opens better ones.
And when He does — you’ll realize why every ending was necessary.

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GioLoveChange

Healing | Self-reflection | Growth Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Follower of God, Student for Life

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