Give Me One Minute And I Will Show You Why Your Favorite Self-Help Book Wasted Your Precious Time (And What You Can Do About It)

Discover How An Overlooked, 5-Step System Can Turn Your Self-Help Knowledge Into Real World Results

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Dear Aspiring Change-Maker...

Pause for a moment and consider: How many transformative books have you read? Podcasts listened to? Online courses enrolled in?

Be real with me:

Have they truly shifted your life's trajectory?

Or are you in a never-ending cycle of 'feel-good' self-improvement?

Count the years since you first dived into the realm of self-help.

Five? Six? Even a decade?

Now, evaluate:

  • Are you living your dream life?

  • Are you emotionally resilient and mentally empowered?

  • Are you making groundbreaking strides in your journey?


If you find yourself saying "no" to any of these, today might be your turning point.

The answer isn't another book, per se.

It's a life-navigation system. Let's call it a 'LifeMap,' shall we?

This Purpose Planner contains a 4-step blueprint designed to fast-track your dreams into your daily reality.

Because the thing most self-help manuals lack is actionable strategy.

And that's precisely where TheLoveChange Purpose Planner steps in.

How Will The Purpose Planner

Work For Me?

Map Out Your Dream Life

Define your vision, routines, intentions, and goals for the year.

This is necessary to wake up in the morning

excited

and ready to win... not sit their scrolling on your phone.

Refine Your Path

Once you define your future do you just leave it at that and hope it comes true? No.

Narrowing down your purpose goals, focus goals, and habits into quarterly and monthly goals will reduce overwhelm to near zero.

Dive Even Deeper

Week by week, you will dive deep and realize your true priorities.


Weekly reviews will set you up to absolutely crush your week.

Small Actionable Steps

This is where the magic happens.


Each day, you will prioritize tasks based on your goals. They will be effortless to complete and not take up
hours upon hours of your day.


Legend has it that an hour of focus a day can drastically change your life.

Bonus: The Purpose Planner on Notion

  • Plan From Your Phone and Desktop

    • Notion syncs across your devices so you can plan on the go and write down crucial ideas.

  • Fully Customizable

    • Don't like a specific part of the PDF version? Simply log into Notion and use its variety of features to make it your own.

You Can Wait For The Perfect Moment, Or You Can Commit

I’ll keep this part short and sweet.


You are the only one that knows your current situation.


Be honest with yourself:


Have you truly made the progress that you’ve wanted to in the last 6 months?


How much longer will you be okay with your current situation in life?


The choice is in your hands.


Start making significant progress towards your dream life, or sit back and wait for the perfect moment (which we both know will never come).


Enter your details below and press "Download Now" to get instant access to the
PDF and Notion version of The Purpose Planner.

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Rest is Your Birthright

You Don’t Have to Earn Rest — You Deserve It Now

July 05, 20252 min read

Let’s get one thing straight…
You were not born to be exhausted in order to feel worthy.
You don’t need to burn out to prove you’re enough.
You don’t need to break yourself down to earn permission to pause.

Somewhere along the way, we were taught that rest is a reward —
Something we only deserve
after we’ve done enough…
After we’ve hustled…
After we’ve bled…
After we’ve proved our worth.

But that’s a lie.
And it’s time we unlearn it.

Rest is not weakness.
Rest is not giving up.
Rest is resistance in a world that profits off your exhaustion.

You’ve been made to feel guilty for slowing down.
But the truth is — your nervous system was never built for constant survival.
You’re not lazy.
You’re tired.

And tired doesn’t mean broken.
Tired means:
you need restoration.
Tired means: your spirit is asking for stillness.

And that stillness? It’s holy.

Many of us are addicted to hustle because we’ve attached our worth to output.
To productivity.
To proving we’re useful.

But God didn’t create you to be a machine.
He created you to be a vessel.
And vessels need refilling.

You are not failing just because you're not constantly producing.
You’re not behind just because you’re resting.
Rest is not the opposite of growth — it’s part of it.

Rest isn’t just sleeping.
Rest is saying no without explaining yourself.
Rest is logging off.
Rest is not replying right away.
Rest is not just what you do — it’s what you
allow.

Allowing yourself to sit in silence.
Allowing joy without earning it.
Allowing peace to be enough.

You don’t need to reach a breaking point to justify rest.
You’re allowed to choose it now.
Proactively.
Deliberately.
Lovingly.

Here’s the truth nobody told you:
Healing requires rest.
Growth requires rest.
Even God rested.

If you’re always in motion, when do you receive?
When do you listen?
When do you align?

Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do…
is nothing at all.
To sit.
To breathe.
To surrender.

Let go of the guilt.
Let go of the pressure.
Let go of the voice that says you have to earn this.

Because you were never meant to earn something that was already yours.

You deserve rest because you’re human.
You deserve rest because you’re divine.
You deserve rest… now.

Not later.
Not when the to-do list is empty.
Not when you’ve proven yourself.
Now.

The world will try to convince you to run yourself dry…
But your soul is whispering:
“Come home. Rest now.”

So this is your permission slip.
Your reminder.
Your truth.

You don’t have to earn rest.
You just have to claim it.
Today.
This moment.
Right here.

You are already enough.

Self LoveRest
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GioLoveChange

Healing | Self-reflection | Growth Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Follower of God, Student for Life

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Rest is Your Birthright

You Don’t Have to Earn Rest — You Deserve It Now

July 05, 20252 min read

Let’s get one thing straight…
You were not born to be exhausted in order to feel worthy.
You don’t need to burn out to prove you’re enough.
You don’t need to break yourself down to earn permission to pause.

Somewhere along the way, we were taught that rest is a reward —
Something we only deserve
after we’ve done enough…
After we’ve hustled…
After we’ve bled…
After we’ve proved our worth.

But that’s a lie.
And it’s time we unlearn it.

Rest is not weakness.
Rest is not giving up.
Rest is resistance in a world that profits off your exhaustion.

You’ve been made to feel guilty for slowing down.
But the truth is — your nervous system was never built for constant survival.
You’re not lazy.
You’re tired.

And tired doesn’t mean broken.
Tired means:
you need restoration.
Tired means: your spirit is asking for stillness.

And that stillness? It’s holy.

Many of us are addicted to hustle because we’ve attached our worth to output.
To productivity.
To proving we’re useful.

But God didn’t create you to be a machine.
He created you to be a vessel.
And vessels need refilling.

You are not failing just because you're not constantly producing.
You’re not behind just because you’re resting.
Rest is not the opposite of growth — it’s part of it.

Rest isn’t just sleeping.
Rest is saying no without explaining yourself.
Rest is logging off.
Rest is not replying right away.
Rest is not just what you do — it’s what you
allow.

Allowing yourself to sit in silence.
Allowing joy without earning it.
Allowing peace to be enough.

You don’t need to reach a breaking point to justify rest.
You’re allowed to choose it now.
Proactively.
Deliberately.
Lovingly.

Here’s the truth nobody told you:
Healing requires rest.
Growth requires rest.
Even God rested.

If you’re always in motion, when do you receive?
When do you listen?
When do you align?

Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do…
is nothing at all.
To sit.
To breathe.
To surrender.

Let go of the guilt.
Let go of the pressure.
Let go of the voice that says you have to earn this.

Because you were never meant to earn something that was already yours.

You deserve rest because you’re human.
You deserve rest because you’re divine.
You deserve rest… now.

Not later.
Not when the to-do list is empty.
Not when you’ve proven yourself.
Now.

The world will try to convince you to run yourself dry…
But your soul is whispering:
“Come home. Rest now.”

So this is your permission slip.
Your reminder.
Your truth.

You don’t have to earn rest.
You just have to claim it.
Today.
This moment.
Right here.

You are already enough.

Self LoveRest
blog author image

GioLoveChange

Healing | Self-reflection | Growth Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Follower of God, Student for Life

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