Give Me One Minute And I Will Show You Why Your Favorite Self-Help Book Wasted Your Precious Time (And What You Can Do About It)

Discover How An Overlooked, 5-Step System Can Turn Your Self-Help Knowledge Into Real World Results

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Dear Aspiring Change-Maker...

Pause for a moment and consider: How many transformative books have you read? Podcasts listened to? Online courses enrolled in?

Be real with me:

Have they truly shifted your life's trajectory?

Or are you in a never-ending cycle of 'feel-good' self-improvement?

Count the years since you first dived into the realm of self-help.

Five? Six? Even a decade?

Now, evaluate:

  • Are you living your dream life?

  • Are you emotionally resilient and mentally empowered?

  • Are you making groundbreaking strides in your journey?


If you find yourself saying "no" to any of these, today might be your turning point.

The answer isn't another book, per se.

It's a life-navigation system. Let's call it a 'LifeMap,' shall we?

This Purpose Planner contains a 4-step blueprint designed to fast-track your dreams into your daily reality.

Because the thing most self-help manuals lack is actionable strategy.

And that's precisely where TheLoveChange Purpose Planner steps in.

How Will The Purpose Planner

Work For Me?

Map Out Your Dream Life

Define your vision, routines, intentions, and goals for the year.

This is necessary to wake up in the morning

excited

and ready to win... not sit their scrolling on your phone.

Refine Your Path

Once you define your future do you just leave it at that and hope it comes true? No.

Narrowing down your purpose goals, focus goals, and habits into quarterly and monthly goals will reduce overwhelm to near zero.

Dive Even Deeper

Week by week, you will dive deep and realize your true priorities.


Weekly reviews will set you up to absolutely crush your week.

Small Actionable Steps

This is where the magic happens.


Each day, you will prioritize tasks based on your goals. They will be effortless to complete and not take up
hours upon hours of your day.


Legend has it that an hour of focus a day can drastically change your life.

Bonus: The Purpose Planner on Notion

  • Plan From Your Phone and Desktop

    • Notion syncs across your devices so you can plan on the go and write down crucial ideas.

  • Fully Customizable

    • Don't like a specific part of the PDF version? Simply log into Notion and use its variety of features to make it your own.

You Can Wait For The Perfect Moment, Or You Can Commit

I’ll keep this part short and sweet.


You are the only one that knows your current situation.


Be honest with yourself:


Have you truly made the progress that you’ve wanted to in the last 6 months?


How much longer will you be okay with your current situation in life?


The choice is in your hands.


Start making significant progress towards your dream life, or sit back and wait for the perfect moment (which we both know will never come).


Enter your details below and press "Download Now" to get instant access to the
PDF and Notion version of The Purpose Planner.

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Find Your Purpose

How To Remember Your Purpose, Mission, & Yourself

April 17, 20254 min read

Let’s break the illusion real quick:

Finding your purpose isn’t about flying halfway across the world or reading every book on spirituality. It’s not about chasing certifications, status, or clarity from someone else. Purpose isn’t something you find—it’s something you remember. And more than anything, it’s something you surrender to.

That’s the real word here: surrender.

It Starts Within

Purpose lives in your body. In your intuition. In your silence. In your energy. It’s not out there in someone else’s opinion of you. It’s already inside you—waiting for you to get still enough to hear it.

We spend so much time searching externally—running toward gurus, distractions, even escapes. But the truth? None of that brings lasting peace. Real answers live inside the voice you’ve been ignoring. The whisper that gets drowned out by noise, doubt, or emotion.

The Flow Is the Clue

Here’s a question you need to start asking: Is what I’m doing giving me energy?

If it energizes you, it’s aligned. If it drains you, it’s a signal to let go.

Purpose is energy. Energy is purpose. That’s the map. Stop overthinking it.

Solitude Isn’t Isolation

Some of y’all are afraid of being alone because you confuse it with isolation. But here’s the truth:

  • Aloneness = Wholeness

  • Isolation = Separation

The difference? Intention.

Solitude with the intention to reconnect to Source is powerful. It grounds you. Isolation from fear or anxiety separates you from everything. So check in with your intention when you’re alone.

The Real You Is Waiting

Purpose comes when you drop the act. When you stop performing. Stop trying to live by someone else’s definition of success. And please, stop trying to be perfect.

You don’t need to become anything. You need to uncover who you already are.

Education in its truest sense means to draw out, not stuff more in. Real growth is about pulling out the gifts you’ve always carried, not downloading a new identity.

You Are the Technology

Forget the apps for a second. Forget the algorithm.

You. Your heart. Your breath. Your being.

That’s the real technology.

The divine intelligence you’re seeking? It’s already coded into your spirit. Remember who you are. Trust the design.

Trust > Control

God doesn’t want to force you into anything. God wants your trust. That’s surrender.

You won’t have all the answers. But you’re not supposed to. Because when you surrender to your design, your path opens. Trust and walk it.

Drop the Labels

Stop trying to live by every label society gives you. Be real. Be authentic. Let go of the world’s version of who you "should" be and start tuning into who you already are.

That feeling in your heart? That’s God speaking. Not the mind. The heart.

So soften it. Prune it. Break the stone off it and let it speak again.

Don’t Choose the Path You Created

Choose the one God created for you.

God loves you so much that He’ll let you pick your own path—but you’ll keep hitting resistance until you realize His is better. Every time you fall short, it’s a sign that maybe it’s time to let go of your version and step into the divine version.

Authenticity Fuels You

The more you become you, the more energy you attract. Stop people-pleasing. You’re not here for that. You’re here to align with your soul’s expectation.

Community Reflects Your State

Look around. Your circle is a mirror.

You’re not broken, but you might be surrounded by people who reflect your current energy. They’re not here to complete you—they’re here to reveal you.

So don’t rely on others for identity. Ground your identity in God.

Identity Is Found in Source

The world’s version of identity is chaotic.

If you want peace, stop identifying with the world and start identifying with Source. You’re created in God’s image. That’s the only identity that will truly sustain you.

You Are a Mirror

Your life mirrors your inner frequency.

Nikola Tesla said it best: Everything is energy, frequency, and vibration. So ask yourself—what are you sending out? Because it’s all coming back.

Let your vibration be rooted in love. Let your frequency be guided by trust.

Purpose Is Not a Job

Purpose is not a job.

It’s a state of being.

You already have it within you. All that’s left is to surrender to it.

Blessings to the Most High. Love to the community. —Gio


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GioLoveChange

Artist | Alchemist | Activist Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Student of Life, Learning As I Go.

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Find Your Purpose

How To Remember Your Purpose, Mission, & Yourself

April 17, 20254 min read

Let’s break the illusion real quick:

Finding your purpose isn’t about flying halfway across the world or reading every book on spirituality. It’s not about chasing certifications, status, or clarity from someone else. Purpose isn’t something you find—it’s something you remember. And more than anything, it’s something you surrender to.

That’s the real word here: surrender.

It Starts Within

Purpose lives in your body. In your intuition. In your silence. In your energy. It’s not out there in someone else’s opinion of you. It’s already inside you—waiting for you to get still enough to hear it.

We spend so much time searching externally—running toward gurus, distractions, even escapes. But the truth? None of that brings lasting peace. Real answers live inside the voice you’ve been ignoring. The whisper that gets drowned out by noise, doubt, or emotion.

The Flow Is the Clue

Here’s a question you need to start asking: Is what I’m doing giving me energy?

If it energizes you, it’s aligned. If it drains you, it’s a signal to let go.

Purpose is energy. Energy is purpose. That’s the map. Stop overthinking it.

Solitude Isn’t Isolation

Some of y’all are afraid of being alone because you confuse it with isolation. But here’s the truth:

  • Aloneness = Wholeness

  • Isolation = Separation

The difference? Intention.

Solitude with the intention to reconnect to Source is powerful. It grounds you. Isolation from fear or anxiety separates you from everything. So check in with your intention when you’re alone.

The Real You Is Waiting

Purpose comes when you drop the act. When you stop performing. Stop trying to live by someone else’s definition of success. And please, stop trying to be perfect.

You don’t need to become anything. You need to uncover who you already are.

Education in its truest sense means to draw out, not stuff more in. Real growth is about pulling out the gifts you’ve always carried, not downloading a new identity.

You Are the Technology

Forget the apps for a second. Forget the algorithm.

You. Your heart. Your breath. Your being.

That’s the real technology.

The divine intelligence you’re seeking? It’s already coded into your spirit. Remember who you are. Trust the design.

Trust > Control

God doesn’t want to force you into anything. God wants your trust. That’s surrender.

You won’t have all the answers. But you’re not supposed to. Because when you surrender to your design, your path opens. Trust and walk it.

Drop the Labels

Stop trying to live by every label society gives you. Be real. Be authentic. Let go of the world’s version of who you "should" be and start tuning into who you already are.

That feeling in your heart? That’s God speaking. Not the mind. The heart.

So soften it. Prune it. Break the stone off it and let it speak again.

Don’t Choose the Path You Created

Choose the one God created for you.

God loves you so much that He’ll let you pick your own path—but you’ll keep hitting resistance until you realize His is better. Every time you fall short, it’s a sign that maybe it’s time to let go of your version and step into the divine version.

Authenticity Fuels You

The more you become you, the more energy you attract. Stop people-pleasing. You’re not here for that. You’re here to align with your soul’s expectation.

Community Reflects Your State

Look around. Your circle is a mirror.

You’re not broken, but you might be surrounded by people who reflect your current energy. They’re not here to complete you—they’re here to reveal you.

So don’t rely on others for identity. Ground your identity in God.

Identity Is Found in Source

The world’s version of identity is chaotic.

If you want peace, stop identifying with the world and start identifying with Source. You’re created in God’s image. That’s the only identity that will truly sustain you.

You Are a Mirror

Your life mirrors your inner frequency.

Nikola Tesla said it best: Everything is energy, frequency, and vibration. So ask yourself—what are you sending out? Because it’s all coming back.

Let your vibration be rooted in love. Let your frequency be guided by trust.

Purpose Is Not a Job

Purpose is not a job.

It’s a state of being.

You already have it within you. All that’s left is to surrender to it.

Blessings to the Most High. Love to the community. —Gio


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GioLoveChange

Artist | Alchemist | Activist Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Student of Life, Learning As I Go.

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