Give Me One Minute And I Will Show You Why Your Favorite Self-Help Book Wasted Your Precious Time (And What You Can Do About It)
Discover How An Overlooked, 5-Step System Can Turn Your Self-Help Knowledge Into Real World Results
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Dear Aspiring Change-Maker...
Pause for a moment and consider: How many transformative books have you read? Podcasts listened to? Online courses enrolled in?
Be real with me:
Have they truly shifted your life's trajectory?
Or are you in a never-ending cycle of 'feel-good' self-improvement?
Count the years since you first dived into the realm of self-help.
Five? Six? Even a decade?
Now, evaluate:
Are you living your dream life?
Are you emotionally resilient and mentally empowered?
Are you making groundbreaking strides in your journey?
If you find yourself saying "no" to any of these, today might be your turning point.
The answer isn't another book, per se.
It's a life-navigation system. Let's call it a 'LifeMap,' shall we?
This Purpose Planner contains a 4-step blueprint designed to fast-track your dreams into your daily reality.
Because the thing most self-help manuals lack is actionable strategy.
And that's precisely where TheLoveChange Purpose Planner steps in.
How Will The Purpose Planner
Work For Me?
Map Out Your Dream Life
Define your vision, routines, intentions, and goals for the year.
This is necessary to wake up in the morning
excited
and ready to win... not sit their scrolling on your phone.
Refine Your Path
Once you define your future do you just leave it at that and hope it comes true? No.
Narrowing down your purpose goals, focus goals, and habits into quarterly and monthly goals will reduce overwhelm to near zero.
Dive Even Deeper
Week by week, you will dive deep and realize your true priorities.
Weekly reviews will set you up to absolutely crush your week.
Small Actionable Steps
This is where the magic happens.
Each day, you will prioritize tasks based on your goals. They will be effortless to complete and not take up
hours upon hours of your day.
Legend has it that an hour of focus a day can drastically change your life.
Bonus: The Purpose Planner on Notion
Plan From Your Phone and Desktop
Notion syncs across your devices so you can plan on the go and write down crucial ideas.
Fully Customizable
Don't like a specific part of the PDF version? Simply log into Notion and use its variety of features to make it your own.
You Can Wait For The Perfect Moment, Or You Can Commit
I’ll keep this part short and sweet.
You are the only one that knows your current situation.
Be honest with yourself:
Have you truly made the progress that you’ve wanted to in the last 6 months?
How much longer will you be okay with your current situation in life?
The choice is in your hands.
Start making significant progress towards your dream life, or sit back and wait for the perfect moment (which we both know will never come).
Enter your details below and press "Download Now" to get instant access to the
PDF and Notion version of The Purpose Planner.
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You Don’t Need to Find Yourself. You Need to Surrender to Yourself
You Don’t Need to Find Yourself. You Need to Surrender to Yourself
Finding your purpose is not about searching outward. It's about surrendering inward.
That’s such a key word—surrender. You don’t have to go looking for yourself. You have to surrender to yourself.
We do so much external searching. Gurus, organizations, vacations, distractions. But those things don’t bring lasting clarity. The real answers? They live in surrender.
Your purpose isn’t out there. It’s inside of you.
Your Divine Purpose Lives Within
Your inner voice. Your inner world. God speaking through your mind, your consciousness, and your intuition. That’s where purpose is found.
Ask yourself:
Is what I’m doing generating energy?
If yes, then that’s your clue.
Energy = Purpose. Purpose = Flow.
Are you in flow? Does it resonate with who you’re becoming? If so, you’re stepping into your divine purpose.
Silence & Solitude: The Gateway Within
Sometimes you must disconnect to reconnect.
Silence allows you to hear the voice you’ve been drowning out.
That was me—searching so hard for purpose that I drowned out the voice of God.
Stillness isn’t always quiet.
You can find solitude in dance, walking, swimming, meditation. Anything that helps you tune in.
Here’s the distinction:
Aloneness = Wholeness
Isolation = Separation
Alone in nature to connect with God is not the same as isolating out of fear or anxiety. The energy is different. If you’ve been isolating, this is your invitation to redirect that into grounding solitude.
Follow the Energy
Energy never dies—it transfers.
Purpose often shows up in the things that light us up from the inside.
Ask yourself:
What brings me alive?
What charges my spirit?
If it energizes you, it’s meant for you.
If it drains you, it’s not.
Reclaim Your Voice
The real book is you—not society’s definition of you.
Let go of the pressure to be perfect.
Let go of trying to live by others’ standards.
Education comes from the Latin educare — to draw out.
Your purpose is already in you. It's not about putting more in. It's about drawing it out.
We are infinite beings who forgot who we are.
Purpose is remembering.
You Are the Technology
You are the tech.
Your body, your intuition, your heart—they are your divine tools.
We often connect externally, but the real connection is internal.
Surrender is the key.
God doesn’t want to force your purpose. He wants you to trust your design.
That’s why faith is everything.
Ask your questions.
Question everything.
And then surrender.
Drop the Labels
Be authentic.
Let go of what society told you to be.
Embrace who God created you to be.
If it doesn’t feel right in your heart, start questioning.
The mind is conditioned by society.
The heart is cultivated by God.
Prune your heart.
Soften it.
Let go of pride, fear, and the stone around your soul.
Let Go of Your Will
God loves us enough to give us the freedom to choose.
You can live by your own design—or the one He made for you.
Every time I chose my own path, something felt off.
When I surrender to His path, I find alignment.
You are not here to meet the expectations of the world.
You are here to meet the expectations of your soul.
Seek the Creator, Not the Creation
Everything in this world is a creation.
But where is the Creator?
That’s where I pull my energy from.
That’s where I find authenticity.
Self-Love Is a Pillar
Self-love is not the foundation—God’s love is.
But self-love is a pillar that keeps the energy flowing.
Love your flaws.
That’s where your deeper truths live.
When I started to love every part of myself—including the broken parts—I began to understand why I am the way I am.
And it finally made sense.
Your Circle Reflects Your Spirit
People are mirrors.
The people you surround yourself with reflect your inner state.
That truth changed everything for me.
People are not here to complete you.
They are here to reflect you.
Don’t rely on others for identity.
Ground your identity in God.
Identity Is Found in God
Too many of us are in an identity crisis.
Why?
Because we don’t know who we are.
But the answer is simple:
Ground your identity in God.
I don’t need to identify with anything the world offers.
My identity is created by God.
In the image of God.
And that is enough.
Final Word: Purpose Is a State of Being
It’s not a title.
Not a career.
Not a destination.
True purpose is a frequency.
It’s a presence.
It’s alignment.
Let love guide you.
Let energy lead you.
Let God remind you.
You don’t need to find yourself.
You just need to remember who you are.
Blessings to the Most High. Glory to Source.
Welcome to TheLoveChange.
You Don’t Need to Find Yourself. You Need to Surrender to Yourself
You Don’t Need to Find Yourself. You Need to Surrender to Yourself
Finding your purpose is not about searching outward. It's about surrendering inward.
That’s such a key word—surrender. You don’t have to go looking for yourself. You have to surrender to yourself.
We do so much external searching. Gurus, organizations, vacations, distractions. But those things don’t bring lasting clarity. The real answers? They live in surrender.
Your purpose isn’t out there. It’s inside of you.
Your Divine Purpose Lives Within
Your inner voice. Your inner world. God speaking through your mind, your consciousness, and your intuition. That’s where purpose is found.
Ask yourself:
Is what I’m doing generating energy?
If yes, then that’s your clue.
Energy = Purpose. Purpose = Flow.
Are you in flow? Does it resonate with who you’re becoming? If so, you’re stepping into your divine purpose.
Silence & Solitude: The Gateway Within
Sometimes you must disconnect to reconnect.
Silence allows you to hear the voice you’ve been drowning out.
That was me—searching so hard for purpose that I drowned out the voice of God.
Stillness isn’t always quiet.
You can find solitude in dance, walking, swimming, meditation. Anything that helps you tune in.
Here’s the distinction:
Aloneness = Wholeness
Isolation = Separation
Alone in nature to connect with God is not the same as isolating out of fear or anxiety. The energy is different. If you’ve been isolating, this is your invitation to redirect that into grounding solitude.
Follow the Energy
Energy never dies—it transfers.
Purpose often shows up in the things that light us up from the inside.
Ask yourself:
What brings me alive?
What charges my spirit?
If it energizes you, it’s meant for you.
If it drains you, it’s not.
Reclaim Your Voice
The real book is you—not society’s definition of you.
Let go of the pressure to be perfect.
Let go of trying to live by others’ standards.
Education comes from the Latin educare — to draw out.
Your purpose is already in you. It's not about putting more in. It's about drawing it out.
We are infinite beings who forgot who we are.
Purpose is remembering.
You Are the Technology
You are the tech.
Your body, your intuition, your heart—they are your divine tools.
We often connect externally, but the real connection is internal.
Surrender is the key.
God doesn’t want to force your purpose. He wants you to trust your design.
That’s why faith is everything.
Ask your questions.
Question everything.
And then surrender.
Drop the Labels
Be authentic.
Let go of what society told you to be.
Embrace who God created you to be.
If it doesn’t feel right in your heart, start questioning.
The mind is conditioned by society.
The heart is cultivated by God.
Prune your heart.
Soften it.
Let go of pride, fear, and the stone around your soul.
Let Go of Your Will
God loves us enough to give us the freedom to choose.
You can live by your own design—or the one He made for you.
Every time I chose my own path, something felt off.
When I surrender to His path, I find alignment.
You are not here to meet the expectations of the world.
You are here to meet the expectations of your soul.
Seek the Creator, Not the Creation
Everything in this world is a creation.
But where is the Creator?
That’s where I pull my energy from.
That’s where I find authenticity.
Self-Love Is a Pillar
Self-love is not the foundation—God’s love is.
But self-love is a pillar that keeps the energy flowing.
Love your flaws.
That’s where your deeper truths live.
When I started to love every part of myself—including the broken parts—I began to understand why I am the way I am.
And it finally made sense.
Your Circle Reflects Your Spirit
People are mirrors.
The people you surround yourself with reflect your inner state.
That truth changed everything for me.
People are not here to complete you.
They are here to reflect you.
Don’t rely on others for identity.
Ground your identity in God.
Identity Is Found in God
Too many of us are in an identity crisis.
Why?
Because we don’t know who we are.
But the answer is simple:
Ground your identity in God.
I don’t need to identify with anything the world offers.
My identity is created by God.
In the image of God.
And that is enough.
Final Word: Purpose Is a State of Being
It’s not a title.
Not a career.
Not a destination.
True purpose is a frequency.
It’s a presence.
It’s alignment.
Let love guide you.
Let energy lead you.
Let God remind you.
You don’t need to find yourself.
You just need to remember who you are.
Blessings to the Most High. Glory to Source.
Welcome to TheLoveChange.
