Give Me One Minute And I Will Show You Why Your Favorite Self-Help Book Wasted Your Precious Time (And What You Can Do About It)
Discover How An Overlooked, 5-Step System Can Turn Your Self-Help Knowledge Into Real World Results
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Dear Aspiring Change-Maker...
Pause for a moment and consider: How many transformative books have you read? Podcasts listened to? Online courses enrolled in?
Be real with me:
Have they truly shifted your life's trajectory?
Or are you in a never-ending cycle of 'feel-good' self-improvement?
Count the years since you first dived into the realm of self-help.
Five? Six? Even a decade?
Now, evaluate:
Are you living your dream life?
Are you emotionally resilient and mentally empowered?
Are you making groundbreaking strides in your journey?
If you find yourself saying "no" to any of these, today might be your turning point.
The answer isn't another book, per se.
It's a life-navigation system. Let's call it a 'LifeMap,' shall we?
This Purpose Planner contains a 4-step blueprint designed to fast-track your dreams into your daily reality.
Because the thing most self-help manuals lack is actionable strategy.
And that's precisely where TheLoveChange Purpose Planner steps in.
How Will The Purpose Planner
Work For Me?
Map Out Your Dream Life
Define your vision, routines, intentions, and goals for the year.
This is necessary to wake up in the morning
excited
and ready to win... not sit their scrolling on your phone.
Refine Your Path
Once you define your future do you just leave it at that and hope it comes true? No.
Narrowing down your purpose goals, focus goals, and habits into quarterly and monthly goals will reduce overwhelm to near zero.
Dive Even Deeper
Week by week, you will dive deep and realize your true priorities.
Weekly reviews will set you up to absolutely crush your week.
Small Actionable Steps
This is where the magic happens.
Each day, you will prioritize tasks based on your goals. They will be effortless to complete and not take up
hours upon hours of your day.
Legend has it that an hour of focus a day can drastically change your life.
Bonus: The Purpose Planner on Notion
Plan From Your Phone and Desktop
Notion syncs across your devices so you can plan on the go and write down crucial ideas.
Fully Customizable
Don't like a specific part of the PDF version? Simply log into Notion and use its variety of features to make it your own.
You Can Wait For The Perfect Moment, Or You Can Commit
I’ll keep this part short and sweet.
You are the only one that knows your current situation.
Be honest with yourself:
Have you truly made the progress that you’ve wanted to in the last 6 months?
How much longer will you be okay with your current situation in life?
The choice is in your hands.
Start making significant progress towards your dream life, or sit back and wait for the perfect moment (which we both know will never come).
Enter your details below and press "Download Now" to get instant access to the
PDF and Notion version of The Purpose Planner.
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How to Let Go and Release Resistance: Breakthrough Solutions
Let’s talk real for a sec.
We all reach those moments where we’re just... holding on too tight. To people, to control, to outcomes, to ideas of who we should be and where we should be by now. And it burns us out. It weighs heavy. I’ve been there. Worked those 12-hour shifts. Forcing things. Chasing what I thought I needed. And all it gave me was exhaustion and resistance.
So this right here—this is for anyone trying to release that weight. To let go and truly flow.
Releasing Resistance Is a Process
It ain’t a switch you flip. It’s a gradual unwinding of control. Of ego. Of needing things to go a certain way. And the first step? Stop overediting your life. Real talk.
You don’t have to present some perfected version of you to be worthy. To be seen. Let folks see the messy parts. The rawness. The mistakes. That’s where connection lives.
Let Go of Control
You can’t control how people think. How they move. What they say. And trying to? That just leads to frustration and tightness in your spirit.
Let God. That’s it. Let God hold what’s too heavy for you. That’s not weakness—that’s wisdom.
Your Body Knows
Resistance lives in your body too. In the tension in your shoulders. In the tightness in your breath. So take a second. Sit in nature. Breathe. Listen. You are allowed to pause. To be still.
And if you feel that nudge to be alone? That’s not you being distant. That’s you being called. You’re chosen. Handpicked to walk a path many won’t understand. Trust that.
You Can’t Force Alignment
Look—I’ve tried to force relationships. Force business moves. Force success. And every time, it slipped right through my fingers. But when I embodied the energy of what I wanted—when I felt free, felt joy, felt love before those things came—that’s when everything started shifting.
You don’t want the thing. You want the feeling that thing gives you. So start there.
Let Go of Obsession
Especially with money, yo. Money comes when you’re aligned. When you’re living from a space of service, value, and joy. It doesn’t come from desperation. It comes from detachment.
Live from inner abundance and the outer follows.
Stop Trying to Prove Yourself
You don’t owe anyone an explanation. You don’t need to win their approval. You don’t need to prove your worth.
Respect yourself. Love yourself. Seek that divine connection to Source—not to gain favor, but to be reminded of who you are.
Vulnerability Is Strength
Suppressing your emotions? That just bottles them up and makes them louder. I’ve been there. Tried to numb my pain. Avoid my feelings. Escape. But when I finally opened up to God and was like, "Yo, I’m not okay," that’s when healing started.
There is no healing without vulnerability.
Let Go of the Past
The shoulda, coulda, wouldas will drain your energy. You are not late. You are not behind. You are exactly where you’re meant to be.
We don’t attract what we want—we attract what we are.
So be peace. Be love. Be free. Let go.
And breathe.
Let this be your reminder: your breakthrough is on the other side of surrender.
Blessings, Gio
How to Let Go and Release Resistance: Breakthrough Solutions
Let’s talk real for a sec.
We all reach those moments where we’re just... holding on too tight. To people, to control, to outcomes, to ideas of who we should be and where we should be by now. And it burns us out. It weighs heavy. I’ve been there. Worked those 12-hour shifts. Forcing things. Chasing what I thought I needed. And all it gave me was exhaustion and resistance.
So this right here—this is for anyone trying to release that weight. To let go and truly flow.
Releasing Resistance Is a Process
It ain’t a switch you flip. It’s a gradual unwinding of control. Of ego. Of needing things to go a certain way. And the first step? Stop overediting your life. Real talk.
You don’t have to present some perfected version of you to be worthy. To be seen. Let folks see the messy parts. The rawness. The mistakes. That’s where connection lives.
Let Go of Control
You can’t control how people think. How they move. What they say. And trying to? That just leads to frustration and tightness in your spirit.
Let God. That’s it. Let God hold what’s too heavy for you. That’s not weakness—that’s wisdom.
Your Body Knows
Resistance lives in your body too. In the tension in your shoulders. In the tightness in your breath. So take a second. Sit in nature. Breathe. Listen. You are allowed to pause. To be still.
And if you feel that nudge to be alone? That’s not you being distant. That’s you being called. You’re chosen. Handpicked to walk a path many won’t understand. Trust that.
You Can’t Force Alignment
Look—I’ve tried to force relationships. Force business moves. Force success. And every time, it slipped right through my fingers. But when I embodied the energy of what I wanted—when I felt free, felt joy, felt love before those things came—that’s when everything started shifting.
You don’t want the thing. You want the feeling that thing gives you. So start there.
Let Go of Obsession
Especially with money, yo. Money comes when you’re aligned. When you’re living from a space of service, value, and joy. It doesn’t come from desperation. It comes from detachment.
Live from inner abundance and the outer follows.
Stop Trying to Prove Yourself
You don’t owe anyone an explanation. You don’t need to win their approval. You don’t need to prove your worth.
Respect yourself. Love yourself. Seek that divine connection to Source—not to gain favor, but to be reminded of who you are.
Vulnerability Is Strength
Suppressing your emotions? That just bottles them up and makes them louder. I’ve been there. Tried to numb my pain. Avoid my feelings. Escape. But when I finally opened up to God and was like, "Yo, I’m not okay," that’s when healing started.
There is no healing without vulnerability.
Let Go of the Past
The shoulda, coulda, wouldas will drain your energy. You are not late. You are not behind. You are exactly where you’re meant to be.
We don’t attract what we want—we attract what we are.
So be peace. Be love. Be free. Let go.
And breathe.
Let this be your reminder: your breakthrough is on the other side of surrender.
Blessings, Gio
