Give Me One Minute And I Will Show You Why Your Favorite Self-Help Book Wasted Your Precious Time (And What You Can Do About It)

Discover How An Overlooked, 5-Step System Can Turn Your Self-Help Knowledge Into Real World Results

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Dear Aspiring Change-Maker...

Pause for a moment and consider: How many transformative books have you read? Podcasts listened to? Online courses enrolled in?

Be real with me:

Have they truly shifted your life's trajectory?

Or are you in a never-ending cycle of 'feel-good' self-improvement?

Count the years since you first dived into the realm of self-help.

Five? Six? Even a decade?

Now, evaluate:

  • Are you living your dream life?

  • Are you emotionally resilient and mentally empowered?

  • Are you making groundbreaking strides in your journey?


If you find yourself saying "no" to any of these, today might be your turning point.

The answer isn't another book, per se.

It's a life-navigation system. Let's call it a 'LifeMap,' shall we?

This Purpose Planner contains a 4-step blueprint designed to fast-track your dreams into your daily reality.

Because the thing most self-help manuals lack is actionable strategy.

And that's precisely where TheLoveChange Purpose Planner steps in.

How Will The Purpose Planner

Work For Me?

Map Out Your Dream Life

Define your vision, routines, intentions, and goals for the year.

This is necessary to wake up in the morning

excited

and ready to win... not sit their scrolling on your phone.

Refine Your Path

Once you define your future do you just leave it at that and hope it comes true? No.

Narrowing down your purpose goals, focus goals, and habits into quarterly and monthly goals will reduce overwhelm to near zero.

Dive Even Deeper

Week by week, you will dive deep and realize your true priorities.


Weekly reviews will set you up to absolutely crush your week.

Small Actionable Steps

This is where the magic happens.


Each day, you will prioritize tasks based on your goals. They will be effortless to complete and not take up
hours upon hours of your day.


Legend has it that an hour of focus a day can drastically change your life.

Bonus: The Purpose Planner on Notion

  • Plan From Your Phone and Desktop

    • Notion syncs across your devices so you can plan on the go and write down crucial ideas.

  • Fully Customizable

    • Don't like a specific part of the PDF version? Simply log into Notion and use its variety of features to make it your own.

You Can Wait For The Perfect Moment, Or You Can Commit

I’ll keep this part short and sweet.


You are the only one that knows your current situation.


Be honest with yourself:


Have you truly made the progress that you’ve wanted to in the last 6 months?


How much longer will you be okay with your current situation in life?


The choice is in your hands.


Start making significant progress towards your dream life, or sit back and wait for the perfect moment (which we both know will never come).


Enter your details below and press "Download Now" to get instant access to the
PDF and Notion version of The Purpose Planner.

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God is still working

Your Delay Is Not Denial — It’s Divine Protection in Disguise

July 12, 20252 min read

Sometimes… the thing you wanted so badly doesn’t happen.

The call never comes.

The door doesn’t open.

The opportunity falls through.

And you sit there wondering,

“Did I do something wrong?”

“Was I not ready?”

“Why me? Why now?”

But what if the delay… was never about punishment?

What if it was protection in disguise?

What if God saw something ahead that you couldn’t — and rerouted you out of mercy, not malice?

We live in a world obsessed with timing.

We measure success by how fast something happens.

How quickly you heal.

How young you make money.

How fast you find love.

But God doesn’t rush healing.

God doesn’t rush preparation.

And divine alignment isn’t about speed — it’s about sacred timing.

Delays aren’t denials.

They’re redirections.

And sometimes… what you’re being protected from will never show up on your timeline — because God never let it get close enough to touch you.

Here’s the thing:

You may want the door, but God sees what’s on the other side of it.

You may be praying for a breakthrough…

…not realizing that if it came too soon, it would break you.

You weren’t being punished.

You were being preserved.

Because what’s meant for you is never withheld — it’s just waiting for the version of you that’s ready to carry it with grace, not desperation.

Some blessings require a healed nervous system.

Some seasons require a quieter soul.

Some prayers take time because they come with responsibility, not just reward.

You ever look back on something you begged for…

…only to thank God later that it never happened?

That job.

That relationship.

That old version of your dream.

See, in the moment, it felt like rejection.

But now?

You realize — it was rescue.

God doesn’t ghost you.

He guides you.

And no, it won’t always feel clear while you’re waiting…

But in the silence, trust is being strengthened.

And in the delay, a deeper alignment is being built.

So here’s what I want you to remember:

Delays don’t mean you’ve fallen behind.

They mean something better is being aligned.

Your job isn’t to rush the process —

It’s to remain faithful in it.

To keep showing up, even when nothing makes sense.

To stay grounded, even when doors don’t budge.

To thank God even when you don’t yet see the blessing.

Because sometimes… your unanswered prayer is the greatest answered one.

Don’t confuse the pause for punishment.

Don’t mistake stillness for abandonment.

The silence isn’t God ignoring you —

It’s Him carving out something deeper inside of you.

The delay is not a denial.

It’s a redirection.

A recalibration.

A sacred setup.

Your blessing hasn’t passed you by —

It’s just getting dressed in something better.

So don’t give up now.

God didn’t forget you.

He’s just getting everything ready for the moment you’re truly ready to receive it.

And when it finally comes?

You’ll say:

“Now I understand why I had to wait.”


Gods plan
blog author image

GioLoveChange

Healing | Self-reflection | Growth Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Follower of God, Student for Life

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God is still working

Your Delay Is Not Denial — It’s Divine Protection in Disguise

July 12, 20252 min read

Sometimes… the thing you wanted so badly doesn’t happen.

The call never comes.

The door doesn’t open.

The opportunity falls through.

And you sit there wondering,

“Did I do something wrong?”

“Was I not ready?”

“Why me? Why now?”

But what if the delay… was never about punishment?

What if it was protection in disguise?

What if God saw something ahead that you couldn’t — and rerouted you out of mercy, not malice?

We live in a world obsessed with timing.

We measure success by how fast something happens.

How quickly you heal.

How young you make money.

How fast you find love.

But God doesn’t rush healing.

God doesn’t rush preparation.

And divine alignment isn’t about speed — it’s about sacred timing.

Delays aren’t denials.

They’re redirections.

And sometimes… what you’re being protected from will never show up on your timeline — because God never let it get close enough to touch you.

Here’s the thing:

You may want the door, but God sees what’s on the other side of it.

You may be praying for a breakthrough…

…not realizing that if it came too soon, it would break you.

You weren’t being punished.

You were being preserved.

Because what’s meant for you is never withheld — it’s just waiting for the version of you that’s ready to carry it with grace, not desperation.

Some blessings require a healed nervous system.

Some seasons require a quieter soul.

Some prayers take time because they come with responsibility, not just reward.

You ever look back on something you begged for…

…only to thank God later that it never happened?

That job.

That relationship.

That old version of your dream.

See, in the moment, it felt like rejection.

But now?

You realize — it was rescue.

God doesn’t ghost you.

He guides you.

And no, it won’t always feel clear while you’re waiting…

But in the silence, trust is being strengthened.

And in the delay, a deeper alignment is being built.

So here’s what I want you to remember:

Delays don’t mean you’ve fallen behind.

They mean something better is being aligned.

Your job isn’t to rush the process —

It’s to remain faithful in it.

To keep showing up, even when nothing makes sense.

To stay grounded, even when doors don’t budge.

To thank God even when you don’t yet see the blessing.

Because sometimes… your unanswered prayer is the greatest answered one.

Don’t confuse the pause for punishment.

Don’t mistake stillness for abandonment.

The silence isn’t God ignoring you —

It’s Him carving out something deeper inside of you.

The delay is not a denial.

It’s a redirection.

A recalibration.

A sacred setup.

Your blessing hasn’t passed you by —

It’s just getting dressed in something better.

So don’t give up now.

God didn’t forget you.

He’s just getting everything ready for the moment you’re truly ready to receive it.

And when it finally comes?

You’ll say:

“Now I understand why I had to wait.”


Gods plan
blog author image

GioLoveChange

Healing | Self-reflection | Growth Founder of: @thelovechange | 🦋 Follower of God, Student for Life

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