Give Me One Minute And I Will Show You Why Your Favorite Self-Help Book Wasted Your Precious Time (And What You Can Do About It)
Discover How An Overlooked, 5-Step System Can Turn Your Self-Help Knowledge Into Real World Results
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Dear Aspiring Change-Maker...
Pause for a moment and consider: How many transformative books have you read? Podcasts listened to? Online courses enrolled in?
Be real with me:
Have they truly shifted your life's trajectory?
Or are you in a never-ending cycle of 'feel-good' self-improvement?
Count the years since you first dived into the realm of self-help.
Five? Six? Even a decade?
Now, evaluate:
Are you living your dream life?
Are you emotionally resilient and mentally empowered?
Are you making groundbreaking strides in your journey?
If you find yourself saying "no" to any of these, today might be your turning point.
The answer isn't another book, per se.
It's a life-navigation system. Let's call it a 'LifeMap,' shall we?
This Purpose Planner contains a 4-step blueprint designed to fast-track your dreams into your daily reality.
Because the thing most self-help manuals lack is actionable strategy.
And that's precisely where TheLoveChange Purpose Planner steps in.
How Will The Purpose Planner
Work For Me?
Map Out Your Dream Life
Define your vision, routines, intentions, and goals for the year.
This is necessary to wake up in the morning
excited
and ready to win... not sit their scrolling on your phone.
Refine Your Path
Once you define your future do you just leave it at that and hope it comes true? No.
Narrowing down your purpose goals, focus goals, and habits into quarterly and monthly goals will reduce overwhelm to near zero.
Dive Even Deeper
Week by week, you will dive deep and realize your true priorities.
Weekly reviews will set you up to absolutely crush your week.
Small Actionable Steps
This is where the magic happens.
Each day, you will prioritize tasks based on your goals. They will be effortless to complete and not take up
hours upon hours of your day.
Legend has it that an hour of focus a day can drastically change your life.
Bonus: The Purpose Planner on Notion
Plan From Your Phone and Desktop
Notion syncs across your devices so you can plan on the go and write down crucial ideas.
Fully Customizable
Don't like a specific part of the PDF version? Simply log into Notion and use its variety of features to make it your own.
You Can Wait For The Perfect Moment, Or You Can Commit
I’ll keep this part short and sweet.
You are the only one that knows your current situation.
Be honest with yourself:
Have you truly made the progress that you’ve wanted to in the last 6 months?
How much longer will you be okay with your current situation in life?
The choice is in your hands.
Start making significant progress towards your dream life, or sit back and wait for the perfect moment (which we both know will never come).
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How to Let Go Without Getting Closure
You didn’t get the apology.
You didn’t get the explanation.
You didn’t get the ending you deserved.
And now… you’re stuck in a cycle of overthinking.
You replay the last conversation.
You analyze every moment.
You ask yourself — “Why did this happen?”
“Did I miss a sign?”
“Do they even care?”
But here’s the truth:
Closure doesn’t always come from the person who broke you.
Sometimes it has to come from within you.
And if you’ve been holding on, waiting for something that might never arrive—
This message is for you.
We’ve been sold the idea that healing is impossible without closure.
That we need the other person to explain themselves.
That we can’t move on until they validate our pain.
But let’s get real:
Some people won’t admit what they did.
Some people can’t meet you in your depth.
And some people walk away from the damage they caused—
Because facing it would require growth they’re not ready for.
Closure is beautiful when it happens…
But it’s not a prerequisite for peace.
You don’t need them to acknowledge what they did—
To heal from what they did.
Most of the time, when we crave closure…
What we’re actually craving is:
Validation
Acknowledgment
Accountability
Or a reason that makes the pain make sense
But here’s the twist:
Even if they gave you that — it might not satisfy you.
Because closure doesn’t erase pain.
It doesn’t undo betrayal.
It doesn’t fill the space they left behind.
What you’re really looking for…
Is a return to your own wholeness.
And that?
Can’t be given. It must be reclaimed.
Letting go isn’t about pretending it didn’t hurt.
It’s not about bypassing your grief.
It’s not about “being the bigger person.”
Letting go is about releasing your attachment to how it should’ve ended.
It’s grieving the apology that may never come.
It’s forgiving yourself for holding on so long.
It’s saying:
“Even if they never acknowledge my worth — I will.”
“Even if I never understand why — I can still move forward.”
It’s releasing the hope that the past could be different—
So you can build a future that is.
So how do you actually let go?
You close the loop yourself.
Write the letter you’ll never send
Say the words you wish they said — to yourself
Speak the truth out loud: “It wasn’t fair. But I survived it.”
Remind yourself: “Their silence isn’t a reflection of my worth.”
You stop seeking healing in the hands that hurt you.
You return your power to its rightful place—
Inside of you.
And the moment you stop waiting for them to fix it…
You start healing for real.
You don’t need their permission to let go.
You don’t need their awareness to be free.
Your peace doesn’t depend on their participation.
Because healing isn’t about them.
It’s about you.
Your nervous system.
Your peace of mind.
Your ability to sleep at night.
Your ability to love again.
So let this be your closure:
You showed up.
You cared.
You loved with your whole heart.
And now?
You choose to love yourself enough to release what hurt you.
You choose to move forward without all the answers.
You choose to be free.
How to Let Go Without Getting Closure
You didn’t get the apology.
You didn’t get the explanation.
You didn’t get the ending you deserved.
And now… you’re stuck in a cycle of overthinking.
You replay the last conversation.
You analyze every moment.
You ask yourself — “Why did this happen?”
“Did I miss a sign?”
“Do they even care?”
But here’s the truth:
Closure doesn’t always come from the person who broke you.
Sometimes it has to come from within you.
And if you’ve been holding on, waiting for something that might never arrive—
This message is for you.
We’ve been sold the idea that healing is impossible without closure.
That we need the other person to explain themselves.
That we can’t move on until they validate our pain.
But let’s get real:
Some people won’t admit what they did.
Some people can’t meet you in your depth.
And some people walk away from the damage they caused—
Because facing it would require growth they’re not ready for.
Closure is beautiful when it happens…
But it’s not a prerequisite for peace.
You don’t need them to acknowledge what they did—
To heal from what they did.
Most of the time, when we crave closure…
What we’re actually craving is:
Validation
Acknowledgment
Accountability
Or a reason that makes the pain make sense
But here’s the twist:
Even if they gave you that — it might not satisfy you.
Because closure doesn’t erase pain.
It doesn’t undo betrayal.
It doesn’t fill the space they left behind.
What you’re really looking for…
Is a return to your own wholeness.
And that?
Can’t be given. It must be reclaimed.
Letting go isn’t about pretending it didn’t hurt.
It’s not about bypassing your grief.
It’s not about “being the bigger person.”
Letting go is about releasing your attachment to how it should’ve ended.
It’s grieving the apology that may never come.
It’s forgiving yourself for holding on so long.
It’s saying:
“Even if they never acknowledge my worth — I will.”
“Even if I never understand why — I can still move forward.”
It’s releasing the hope that the past could be different—
So you can build a future that is.
So how do you actually let go?
You close the loop yourself.
Write the letter you’ll never send
Say the words you wish they said — to yourself
Speak the truth out loud: “It wasn’t fair. But I survived it.”
Remind yourself: “Their silence isn’t a reflection of my worth.”
You stop seeking healing in the hands that hurt you.
You return your power to its rightful place—
Inside of you.
And the moment you stop waiting for them to fix it…
You start healing for real.
You don’t need their permission to let go.
You don’t need their awareness to be free.
Your peace doesn’t depend on their participation.
Because healing isn’t about them.
It’s about you.
Your nervous system.
Your peace of mind.
Your ability to sleep at night.
Your ability to love again.
So let this be your closure:
You showed up.
You cared.
You loved with your whole heart.
And now?
You choose to love yourself enough to release what hurt you.
You choose to move forward without all the answers.
You choose to be free.
